The Story of the Lost Mule

It was early spring in the year 2007…

We grinned at one another as we made the turn down our lane.  It was a familiar drive, one we had experienced every weekend since the purchase of our property in 2006.

There was always a shared sigh of relief that once again we had made the 140 miles of winding hills in the darkness successfully dodging the multitude of deer.  In the backseat, our dogs were getting restless as they began to recognize the earthy aroma of the farm.  A place they considered heaven – away from the confines of the small fenced yard at home.  As George got out to open the tangled barbed wire of the old stretch gate I could see his breath in the frigid night air.

It was early April and the night was glistening with frost as the headlights lit our way down the long mazy path that leads to our cabin, nestled deep in the woods.  In pitch darkness he was unlocking the cabin door when he caught the sight of movement behind the cabin, then the sound of the BBQ grill crashing to the ground.  I watched as my husband – who faces anything – jumped as the shadow of a large creature leaped into the darkness.  He got the cabin door open and flipped on the outdoor floodlights. After taking a quick inventory of the damage he came back to the car to get me and carry in the weekend supplies.  Once we were inside he began building the fire to take the chill off the old cabin.   Once the flames took off he told me he had seen something in the dark.

He is a master at downplaying anything he thinks might frighten me.  Stored in the back of his mind was the thought that if I became afraid of what creatures lurk in the woods, his weekends in paradise would soon come to an end.  He told me it must have just been a deer.  Aware that there are many harmless creatures in the night, I didn’t think too much more about it.

As the fire warmed the cabin, I began to unpack our food and get settled in for another weekend of pure serenity.  It was Friday and we were ready for some much-needed rest.

The morning woke us with the promise of warmth as the rays of sun beamed in the bedroom window.  He stoked the fire while I got the coffee started.  Together we stepped onto the front porch to survey our little kingdom. With the steam from our coffee warming our faces on this frosty morning, we notice over in the farthest field there is a large dark animal.

I ran inside and grabbed the binoculars to get a better look – was this a mule?

Excited by our newest visitor, we quickly bundled up, fetched an apple and started our hike in his direction.

Now that this mule was the answer to the strange creature lurking in the darkness behind our cabin, it was safe to discuss that it must have been him that knocked over the grill, and not a deer.

He was a curious but timid old mule, the closer we got – the further he went.  But if we stood still and ignored him, he would approach us.  Never trusting in us to get close enough to take the apple from my hand or to get a loving scratch behind the ears.

This routine of “playing hard to get” continued, each time we would get a little closer than the last, but never actually able to reach out and touch him.  He would stand just out of arms reach, breaking eye contact and trotting off as we would make any advance toward him.

We could see he was long in the tooth and his neck was thick, both signs of an aging mule.

At sundown, as the coyotes would begin to howl, I couldn’t help worry about him – out there all alone.  His only shelter was a loafing shed (3 sided building with southern exposure) to help shield the cold north winds.  We could tell from his droppings that there were times he was happy to have that shelter.

It brought delight to my days knowing he would find the scattered flakes of hay and the apples & carrots we would set out on the old hickory stump.  We would continue to leave these treats for him over the next 4 years of his life.

He became a welcome fixture on the hills of our farm.

We may never know how he found his way into our pasture in the early spring of 2007 – But he lived out his days here.

We honored his memory with the name of our farm “Lost Mule Ridge” and later in 2015 with the name of our home “Lost Mule Lodge”.

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 I regret that I was never able to get a clear photo of our mule,  the photo above is a stock photo.

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What if Tomorrow was the Last Day…?

Not to sound too depressing but let’s face it, none of us are getting out of this alive…

We never know when it will be our last day – or a loved one’s last day.

Recently, I met a wonderful lady – she is my age – we live similar lifestyles, both of us happily married to great men.

Her story stopped me in my tracks and changed my life forever.

It was a typical day for both of them.  After a quick peck on the cheek, he headed out to work in the fields and she began her daily routine of chores around the house.

She never expected to lose him that day.  Neither of them knew that morning would be their last.

No one wants to think of such a nightmare, but we all realize it can happen… in the blink of an eye.

If only we were given a warning – If God whispered: “tomorrow is your last day.”

What would we do differently?

I am embarrassed to say that my answer would be, “I would do a lot of things differently.”

 

 

If I would do things differently just because it was my last day then why not start making those changes now?

I would want my words to be more kind. I would be more genuine and less hurried.  I would try to be more focused, to live life in the moment.  I want to be present and engaged with others I encounter.

I want my memory to bring a smile.

 

I have an experiment I would like you to do…

I did this for just 3 days and it changed how I see and communicate with others.

  • Try to make a sincere effort to listen more intently, to your children, your spouse, to everyone.
  • Be aware of your words, make your words softer and more kind.
  • Do your best to uplift family and total strangers with eye contact, a smile, and a nice greeting.
  • Tell your loved ones how much they mean to you.  If they wave you off, tell them anyway.

For 3 days live your life like the next day was your last – or their last.

This is how this experiment changed me…

I reached out to everyone I encountered – I asked the checkout girl at Walmart if she was a student (it is a college town) – that sparked a conversation – she told me she is a freshman and this is her first time to be away from home, she enjoys her classes but really misses her family back home.

The elderly lady in line at the grocery store had gorgeous long silvery hair and a shirt that she “bedazzled” herself.  I told her she was beautiful – (these were words I doubt she had heard in a while) this gorgeous lady was 87 and trying to find herself since her husband passed away last March.  As I was headed out the door she called to me and asked my name, she said she wanted to remember me because I made her feel beautiful again.

I felt genuine, I listened with my heart, I spoke from my heart.  I made time for people, I made more eye contact, and people noticed.  When they saw I was totally engaged, they responded from their heart.

In just one afternoon, I met 2 people who were going through a silent struggle.  It felt good knowing that I made their day a little better just by caring, listening and offering a kind word.

 

Instead of giving my husband a quick peck on the cheek, I look deep into his baby blues and stroke his bearded face as I kiss him, with a hug that lasts a bit longer.

When I slip on my shoes at dawn and go to turn the chickens out I stop to take in the fresh aroma of the morning, I spend a moment to admire the moon still in the morning sky.

Most of us will never get that warning telling us tomorrow is our last day.  Or the last day of a loved one, or anyone we encounter.

This 3-day experiment is something I want every day. I want to continue being this person.

I want this for each of you.  Think of what you would do differently.  What are you waiting for…?

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My Happy Place – The Sunroom

This is where I read.

This is where I wait.

This is where I sew.

Just kidding…

I can’t sew.

 

After my morning chores, I was waiting for a phone call from a friend and decided to scroll Facebook.

I loved seeing all the photos of friends traveling near and far for summer vacations.

Everyone was having such a fabulous time.  I felt a bit sad…  a self-pity kind of sad.

Sad that we weren’t taking a summer vacation.

 

I topped off my coffee and took my usual seat in the sunroom.

I always sit in what is called “the gunfighter’s seat”.  The one in the corner – where I can see the doors and windows.

Not for the same reason as Wyatt Earp, but because of the view.

So I can catch the morning sky turn that glorious shade of red as the sun casts its crown on the trees in the east.

The windows and doors are wide open – bringing the outdoors in.

 

I scrolled some more and saw where some vacationer got bit by a shark in knee deep water.

I felt myself feeling less sad, actually becoming happier. My pity parties never last long.

I mean, I was sad that someone got bit, he was lucky it was such a small shark.

But now, less sad that we stayed home all summer.

 

Mother Nature’s symphony was streaming through the open windows like stereo. There is no better music.

The crowing of the neighboring rooster and the cows across the road are the melody to the chorus of the birds, the water and the wind rattling the leaves in the trees.

All in majestic harmony.

Any sadness or anger seems to dissipate through these open windows.

I want to invite you into this room so you could feel it too.

Leave the chaos at the door. Just be in the moment and soak it all in.

 

The sconce lighting emits a soft glow in the hours before sunrise.

Above me is the car siding the Amish introduced to us. We have since learned that it is also called “Ship Lap” – made famous by Chip and Joanna Gaines on “Fixer Upper”.

The wicker adds to the outdoorsy & relaxed feel.

You can read my post about these wicker chairs going from hot pink to brown here:

Shabby Cheek Wicker Chairs

You read that right…  it is not a typo – go ahead check it out. It is hilarious.

 

That Sunburst on the wall is a little different than most because it represents my favorite element, the wind.

Not another person, house or yard is in sight.

All we see is nature.

Every window.

Every season.

Nature abounds.

 

The simplicity of this room is what makes it so easy, so relaxing.

There are so few things.

The clutter in my head clears to make room for the planning of the new day.

 

The next time you find yourself scrolling Facebook and feeling a bit left out, just look at the wonderful world around you.

The morning sky, a birds song, the smiling face of a loved one.

It’s there, we just need to slow down and let it soak in for a moment.

I feel blessed that we are at a place in our lives were a vacation sounds good – for an instant.

Then I look around and think, I am not sure any vacation would improve on what is right here.

 

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